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Why I Celebrate My Neurodiversity Son Today

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  Today, I’m celebrating my son’s hard work and success in his recent testing with one of his favorite dishes—Jamaican Ackee and Saltfish. As a mother to a son with autism, I know how meaningful these moments of achievement are, and I love showing him how proud I am in ways that resonate with him. Food is a big part of our connection, and this special meal is my way of honoring his determination, focus, and the unique journey we share. Celebrating these wins reminds me to cherish the small victories that mean so much. 👉 be sure to check out my blog for more special needs parenting tips and resources 🙏❤️. 🔗 in my profile 👆 #autism #autismawareness #specialneeds #specialneedsparenting #tipoftheday

REMEMBERING GOD’S IS IN CHARGE

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  As hard as it is to admit, in the shadows of my heart, I was bargaining with God. “Yes  , my son has some setback, but he will catch up. Life can still go back to normal.  Through those seemingly endless months of too much paperwork and too many appointments and too much grief and too many hurdles with a three year old and our daughter around 7 years old at the time. But there was a bible verse  that I’ve found very encouraging especially in difficult times.  Deuteronomy 31:8  And the Lord, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; Do not fear or be dismayed. In  Life’s path for an autism parent and their child can seem uncertain, uncharted, undefined, and uncomfortable. Life for any person is uncertain but we have to have conversation with God. Psalms 34:18  The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit.  Being a special needs parent will break you from time to time. It will reveal you

Stress-Free Haircuts for Your Neurodiversity Child

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  Hey parents! As a mom of an neurodiversity child, I get how tough haircuts can be. We've gone from cutting his hair in his sleep, to meltdowns at the salon, to now happily sitting in the barber chair independently. "Getting a haircut can be a daunting experience for autistic children, with sensory sensitivities and anxiety often leading to meltdowns. But with the right approach, haircuts can be a breeze! In our ultimate guide, we'll share expert tips and tricks for creating a stress-free experience, from preparing your child in advance to finding an understanding stylist. Discover how to turn a potentially overwhelming task into a positive and empowering experience for your child. With patience, communication, and creativity, haircuts can become a confidence-boosting ritual for your autistic child - and a sigh of relief for you!"

THE MORNING MYSTERY FROM CHAOS TO LOVE

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Mornings with my neurodiversity son can be, well, interesting. One minute he's refusing to wake up, and resisting the start of the day with every fiber of his being. It's like he's allergic to mornings! But then, something magical happens. As we're getting ready for the bus, he transforms into a loving, affectionate child, telling me "I love you" at least 10 times, like nothing ever happened. It's as if the morning struggles never occurred, " It's a daily rollercoaster of emotions, but one that I cherish deeply. I've come to realize that my son's autism means his emotions and needs can shift rapidly. The morning struggles are just that – struggles – but the love he shows me before boarding the bus is genuine and pure. So, I'll take the chaos with the love, and respond to all 10 "I love you's" mom and have a good day at work with an open heart, knowing that our bond is unbreakable.

Today was a tough day.

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 "Today was a tough day. It started with the school bus running late, setting me back from the get-go. Then, at work, I began to feel a nagging pain in my lower back, leaving me feeling drained. But when I got home, I realized I couldn't do anything else except take care of myself. Sometimes, days just don't go as planned, and that's okay. Today I learned that it's okay to take a step back, rest, and prioritize my own well-being. So, if today was a tough day for you too, remember that it's okay to take a moment for yourself and practice self-care." #autismacceptance #autismmom #selfcare✨

Advocating for my son the lessons I have learned from Autism

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"Advocating for my child with autism has been a journey of growth, resilience, and determination. I've learned to navigate complex systems, speak up against stigma, and push for inclusion. But most importantly, I've learned to listen to my child's unique voice and amplify their needs. Through this journey, I've discovered that advocacy is not just about fighting for rights, but about empowering my child to thrive. I've learned to celebrate small victories, to grieve setbacks, and to persevere with hope. To all the parents, caregivers, and allies advocating for their loved ones with autism, I see you, I hear you, and I stand with you. Together, we can create a world that embraces and supports our children's differences, and unlocks their full potential." "When our child received an autism diagnosis, we were told to put their needs first. And so we did. We became warriors, advocates, and caretakers, dedicating ourselves to securing every available r