Advocating for my son the lessons I have learned from Autism

"Advocating for my child with autism has been a journey of growth, resilience, and determination. I've learned to navigate complex systems, speak up against stigma, and push for inclusion. But most importantly, I've learned to listen to my child's unique voice and amplify their needs. Through this journey, I've discovered that advocacy is not just about fighting for rights, but about empowering my child to thrive. I've learned to celebrate small victories, to grieve setbacks, and to persevere with hope. To all the parents, caregivers, and allies advocating for their loved ones with autism, I see you, I hear you, and I stand with you. Together, we can create a world that embraces and supports our children's differences, and unlocks their full potential."

"When our child received an autism diagnosis, we were told to put their needs first. And so we did. We became warriors, advocates, and caretakers, dedicating ourselves to securing every available resource, therapy, and support. We put our own dreams, desires, and identities on the backburner, believing that parenting a child with autism meant sacrificing our own needs. But what if I told you that's a myth? What if I told you that neglecting your own well-being, relationships, and passions ultimately hinders your ability to be the best parent you can be? It's time to redefine what it means to be a parent of a child with autism. It's time to recognize that our own self-care, growth, and happiness are essential to our child's success. Let's break the mold and prioritize our own well-being, too.

"Motherhood, especially parenting a child with autism, has a way of reshaping us from the inside out. My outlook on life has transformed, my ability to advocate has strengthened, and my patience has deepened. But most profoundly, my wants and needs have changed entirely. Gone are the desires for personal achievements, social status, or material possessions. Now, my heart beats for one thing: my son's well-being. I need him to be okay. I need him to thrive. I need him to know he's loved, accepted, and supported. Everything else fades into the background as I navigate this journey alongside him. My evolution as a parent has taught me that true fulfillment comes not from personal accomplishments, but from the love, growth, and happiness of my child."