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Autism and school

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 Dear Autism family  Ok teacher called you everyday to tell you about your child behavior. In my 👁️ sometimes they called you for more bad rather than good. 🧩 But as a mother my child’s mental health is more important than their grade  Life isn’t easy and there will always be some sort of battle that we all have to face every day. Don’t let today. Don’t let the IEP, behavior chart, teachers the trouble at break time Challenge Weaken you because whatever life throws at you, you will always have the strength to move forward  Livebeyondautism

Autism and Dance

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  Dance as a form of expression Dance can be a major resource for children with autism, especially those who are nonverbal. Dance uses the body as a way of communicating instead of the use of words. Depending on the movement, the body can tell a story that the child might not be able to express any other way. From sadness, frustration, or love, with dance, you are teaching your child how to express themselves in a way they will enjoy, without the expectation of trying to verbalize their feelings. Livebeyondautism

Autism and Sleep

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Dear mom with kids  Autism and Sleep: How to Get a Child with Autism to Sleep Autism and sleep is a hot topic in the special needs community. In fact, I once read that more than 50% of children with autism struggle with sleep disturbances of some kind.  Autism and sleep patterns Most families with small children not just autism experience some form of sleep disturbances due to sleep regressions, teething, sicknesses, night terrors, and potty training. This is a fact for me Brad have difficulties falling asleep  So children on the autism spectrum, on the other hand, tend to have difficulties falling and staying asleep, and they often sleep LESS than their neurotypical peers. Feelings of anxiety, and sensory processing issues. So, how do you improve the amount and quality of your child’s sleep How to Get a Child with Autism to Sleep If autism and sleep is a challenge in your household, the first thing you want to do is try to figure out WHY. Does your child have sensory iss...

Take Time For Yourself As A Mom Without Feeling Guilty

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As a mom, it can be tough to take time for yourself. You always feel like you’re behind and there’s never enough time in the day as it is. But taking some time for yourself is crucial for your own happiness   and well-being. Here are 10 helpful ways to take time for yourself as a mom without feeling guilty. When I had my kids, I remember feeling overwhelmed. I was so used to being independent and taking care of myself that it was hard to handle all the new emotions and responsibilities that came with motherhood. On top of that, I felt guilty any time I wanted to take a break or do something for myself. Mothers time and time again continue to put themselves last and their needs on the back burner. We take care of our families, our homes, our jobs, and everything else in between but when do we ever take care of ourselves? The answer is usually never. It is important to take time for yourself because it allows you to recharge and come back even more refreshed and ready to take on...

Happy Halloween making the holiday fun for everyone

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Halloween is a fun night of costumes and candy for kids of all ages. But for those  on the autism spectrum , scary sounds and decorations, tight or scratchy costumes and going out at night can be a lot to handle. Helping your child know what to expect from Halloween can help make it a fun time for everyone. although I don't celebrate halloween I want to make sure its safe for my son that is on the spectrum and my daughter. How To help your littler one get Halloween off to a good start help your kids learn what to expect around Halloween. You can add your own pictures and text to the story. It also includes a badge that autistic children can wear to let candy-givers know that they may communicate differently than other trick-or-treaters.   Scary decorations, places and sounds Halloween decorations can be scary. Ghosts, goblins, witches and black cats are everywhere! And they often come with bright, flashing lights and loud sounds. Even though they’re just for fun...

Autism moms are warriors

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 It’s true. Raising a child with autism is overwhelming, to say the least, and it’s impossible to predict how each day will unfold. Even the slightest change in routine can set your little one off, leaving you feeling as though you’re constantly walking on egg shells in an attempt to keep the peace, which is exhausting. Sometimes it feels as though no one in the entire world understands what you and your family experience on a daily basis, and other times you feel overwhelmed with gratitude for the people who go out of their way to help you. We live in a day and age where we are expected to put everyone’s needs before our own, but what we fail to realize is that there is only so long we can live in a constant state of stress and fatigue before our bodies start to breakdown and even the smallest tasks start to feel overwhelming. And when autism moms feel overwhelmed, the effects can be detrimental on the entire family. I’m serious! Your child’s success with various treatments and th...

How to Handle After School Meltdowns

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It’s back-to-school time! Many parents look forward to this all summer long, while others absolutely dread it. Changing your child’s schedule abruptly at the beginning of a new school year can cause lots of chaos and big emotions. Children on the autism spectrum typically feel this stress much more intensely, which can lead to after school meltdowns. If your kids struggles with this, check out these great ideas to reduce the overwhelm! Why do after school meltdowns occur? How is it even possible? Your child was a perfect angel all day; their teacher said so! Now they are sobbing uncontrollably and throwing things. What happened?! How can your kid have such a great day at school, then come home and completely fall apart? So many moms struggle with this. They begin to wonder if they are a horrible parent, if the teacher is lying, or if their child despises them. The drastic change in behavior is difficult to wrap your mind around. Believe it or not, after school meltdowns are pretty norm...